It's not necessarily about the people I hang out with, just a result of the input I've gotten from "both sides" as it were.

I completely agree with what you said. But as you said, 95% are okay with this. which means 5% aren't, in your experience. I'd say in my experience, or maybe seeing things from the girl-side (where you do invariably get to hear more honest input sometimes, as I'm sure is natural amongst men), I'd say it's been a little more than 5%. So this was about them.