I mean, all due respect (and considerable amounts of it) to Mr. Kravitz, he's got excellent style and is a very handsome man, but frankly I've never seen the appeal of shirtless men or those "perfect" gym physiques.

I dunno. I don't think all women swoon over rock-hard abs. I know I don't. It's far more important to me that the guy I'm with is someone I like and click with, you know?

I have girlfriends who go for that, though. Oh, he's perfect. Sure, that's nice. But can he recommend you a good book? Make you laugh? Pick out a song that encapsulates how you feel? See you when you're feeling invisible? Almost all the dudes I've dated (and cared for) were picked on that criteria, rather than "ooh he's so good looking". And so far, I'm not regretting it :D

Bottom line. Don't worry too much about Mr Kravitz, Thomas. I'm sure he wouldn't want us to.