Aww shucks. Thank you :) I genuinely wasn't aiming at any conflict with the previous piece, and was genuinely surprised when I saw it was getting so much traction. But thank you, I really appreciate what you said.

And by the way, I think you agree. I was just thinking about this. I find it so redundant to always tell your friends "oh, your partner's the asshole", and yet that's what we always do, and I don't think that's helpful at all. It's best to say you're both assholes, now are you gonna work things out and suck together, or just move on.